The Pulled-In Therapist

In a couples session there are two people on the couch and a third in the room: you. The Pulled-In Therapist is 40 printable pocket cards for your own reactivity — when you lean toward one partner, when someone reminds you of someone, when your voice rises or you freeze — each with the sign, the sentence that brings you back to the middle (to the couple or to yourself), a 60-second reset and the question for consultation. Not therapy and not a substitute for supervision. No continuing education credit.